Parking lot distress
I was waiting for a parking spot with my turn signal on. From the opposing direction, a male in a pickup truck drove by as we exited from our car. He yelled, "go back to f**king China" and drove off.
It's true. Asian Americans don't want to bring more attention and hatred towards our own presence. It's partly because of conservative teachings from generations past and rationale to adaptation in culture shock to not "make waves." But this doesn't make it any less acceptable.
My incident didn't happen in the rise of a Trump presidency so it seems like hatred and racism has been alive and well.